BARBADOS (Naked Departure) — BEN SEALE — Naked, Ben Seale is a serial rapist. Since the first story broke, I feel very compelled to write my story. I was a very small girl for my age at 13. I live in Pied Mount Park Grazettes and went to the then St Leonard’s girls.
I would say I was a very happy child, very happy back then. I don’t ever remember being happy as an adult in Barbados even when I had my kids, my wedding, my graduation, things of this sort. I was happy but deep inside it was not total never total. This is something that never goes away so I could identify with many persons that the same thing has happened to them. Why was Ben Seale still in 2015 still hurting little kids?
This is my story. One evening I was on my way home through a short cut when Ben call me saying he have a message for me. Being naive, chalk it up to being told you have to respect your elders, I unseemly went to him. What he did to me have change my life forever. I was a virgin he did it in my exit as well. As I write this it’s like reliving the hold thing. I never told my mother she’s gone to her grave and I never told my mommy. My mother thought the pain, blood and depression was the beginning of my period. I live my whole life suffering depression and been overly protective of my children.
When he realized I said nothing he would make passes but I avoid going to shop and going anywhere alone when I finished school and speaking of school my work had gone from A to F, yes, I failed every subject I leave school with nothing.
I attribute this to my depression I would do nothing someday I would cry all day for nothing I couldn’t get my thoughts together I was miserable. In my late teens he was still making passing and nasty remarks about what he would do to me with his mouth. I then had a boyfriend who was well known in the neighborhood. Chrissy and every one was frightened for him and I told him what Ben was doing not what he did, if I had Ben wouldn’t be around now to do more harm to anyone boy or girl. Chrissy send his boys to warned him, he never interfere with me physically but mentally this have taken my life.
I, too, have since migrate to the USA and still in counseling after so many year sexual abuse destroy lives. Parents protect your young from people like this monster who only defense is he had no truck in 2015 even in his writing he is crooked if that’s him.
My son plans to take a trip to his mother’s land to find Ben. My psychiatrist told me I should do this. I think who else this monster have hurt is get help and report it. Tell someone. Anonymous
NB: Because Barbados is a third-world country that does not allow freedom of speech and freedom of information, Naked Departure is the vehicle where Barbadians, for the most part, can air their grievances and blog anonymously. Although Naked Departure asks for truth in reporting, ALL information is iterated and posted as alleged from Barbadian/Bajan/Bloggers. NAKED DEPARTURE IS ALSO PART OF AN ONGOING INVESTIGATION INTO THE CORRUPTION OF THE BARBADOS GOVERNMENT AND THE PEOPLE WHO HOLD TITLES OF NOBILITY.
No Statute of Limitations on the TRUTH. Sexual abuse is self abuse! Being DOCILE is a crime; it’s worse than being called a nigger; it’s an insult to the entire human experience!
BRIDGETOWN: During the time of slavery in Bridgetown, Barbados, it was the custom to torture a slave or slaves if there was a runaway. Most of the times a pregnant woman was chosen. She would be hung and then the unborn child would be ripped from her womb then crushed by the boots of the white man. All this was done in front of the other slaves to cause fear (NOW DOCILITY) and prevent more runaways (NOW LABOURERS). Post Traumatic Slave Disorder is real in Barbados. Naked Departure
Therefore, do not fear them, for there is nothing concealed that will not be revealed, or hidden that will not be known. What I tell you in the darkness, speak in the light; and what you hear whispered in your ear, proclaim upon the housetops. firstname.lastname@example.org