BARBADOS (Naked Departure) — Dear Naked, as I read your blogs I am amazed at how wicked some people in the world are today the many so call people in business & politicians that are bringing this country down. We have allowed businesses like FLOW & Digicel to come in and rob our citizens out of work and then our government is allowing these companies to bring Irish and Colombians to work without paying any taxes.
There is a lot more unfair treatment coming from companies in Barbados. While the below are a few that were exposed by the frustrated public, there is so much more being swept under the carpet.
Peter Harris – CEO -CGI, Bayview Hospital, Transmed Medical, Sothbey’s Reality, PVH Group, Dial Inc
Leroy Parris – Ex Clico Boss
Mia Mottley – Lawyer & Opposition Leader
Alex McDonald – Chief Operating Officer – Starcom Network
Natalie John – VP Finance – Rayside Construction
Roslyn Knight – General Manager (AG) – Sanitation Services Department
Keith Neblett – General Manager – NCC
Jaggernauth Dass – VP Sales – FLOW Barbados
There are some people who are just users and abusers; they like to rub you the wrong way. How do you deal with these people who are difficult, insensitive, irrational, selfish, manipulative, or arrogant?
There is no question that users will use you to get what they want; a job, a position, money, a favor, a friendship, a recommendation, or whatever the opportunity they are seeking. Abusers on the other hand will hurt you. They will lie, deceive, pretend, or disguise, in order to make your life miserable.
You can call these them toxic people, difficult people, irregular people, irrational people, mean people, selfish people, jealous people, stingy people, rude people, insensitive people, heartless people, cunning people, evil people, ungrateful people, conniving people, deceitful people, arrogant people, wicked people, whatever! They are just “users and abusers”. The sad part about it is that these people could be your spouse, friend, colleague, ex-spouse, lover, church member, co-worker, neighbor, or relative.
Unfortunately these “users and abusers” are like psychopaths, they have little or no conscience. After they have used you, and have gotten what they wanted, they will then turn around and try to destroy you. These are the kinds of people who bite the hands that feed them. Worst of all some of them have a form of godliness but denied the power thereof.
When dealing with “users and abusers” do not take them on nor buy into their pathology. You see, these people are the way they are before you came across their path and they will remain the same way or get worse long after you have moved on, unless a divine miracle of conversion takes place in their hearts.
It is possible that these overtly difficult people are the way they are because of childhood trauma, old wounds stored, pent-up emotions and anger, lost opportunity, jealousy, unfulfilled dreams, fear of self-disclosure, living in denial and unresolved conflicts. It is also possible, that the reason for their negative reaction towards you, is that they see in you that which they want for themselves, it’s called transference.
I am sick and tired of how toxic and selfish this country has become, just interested in one’s self. There needs to be some kind of intervention from the government as to what is happening in this country instead of taxing every cent of the poor pockets. What they need to do is go after the businesses who are not paying their Land Tax, Vat etc. and bring them to justice all those employers that have people working as consultants and paying no taxes look into that.
Keep up the good work Naked. Anonymous